Review: We Never Asked For Wings by Vanessa Diffenbaugh


Title: We Never Asked for Wings

Author: Vanessa Diffenbaugh

Published: Ballantine Books August 2015

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Status: Read from August 21 to 22, 2015 — I own a copy

My Thoughts:

Vanessa Diffenbaugh’s debut novel, The Language of Flowers, was an impressive debut that captured my heart. We Never Asked For Wings is a similarly poignant and touching story.

We Never Asked for Wings is a story of redemption as Letty Epinosa picks up the mantle of motherhood when her parents decide to move back to Mexico. After years of benign neglect, she has to learn what it means to be a parent who is emotionally present in her children’s lives while providing for them as best she can. Letty makes a lot of mistakes as she negotiates her new responsibilities but slowly she begins to find her feet, wanting the best life that she can possibly provide for her fifteen year old son, Alex, and her six year old daughter, Luna.

Meanwhile Alex is falling in love for the first time and Letty is terrified he will repeat her mistakes, sabotaging his dreams with a teenage pregnancy. Alex however is far more responsible than his mother gives him credit for, but in trying to help Ysenia, an undocumented immigrant, escape the bullying she experiences at school, he unwittingly puts both their futures in jeopardy.

We Never Asked For Wings explores social issues including single parenthood, educational inequality, poverty and immigration, and themes such as family, love, regrets and redemption. Birds and feathers are symbols of migration, patterns, hopes and dreams.

Sensitively and beautifully written, Diffenbaugh paints a vivid picture of a family struggling to overcome adversity and forge a stronger, united future in We Never Asked For Wings. This is a wonderfully engaging and affecting novel that tugs at the heartstrings.


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6 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Patty
    Aug 25, 2015 @ 03:30:50

    This is a first! We reviewed the same book on the same day!

    Liked by 1 person


  2. laurelrainsnow
    Aug 25, 2015 @ 03:32:26

    I loved this one, too….and the author’s first book, The Language of Flowers. Thanks for sharing.

    Liked by 1 person


  3. Athira
    Aug 25, 2015 @ 08:27:11

    I haven’t read this authors previous book but it’s on my wishlist. Glad to see that this one is just as good!

    Liked by 1 person


  4. Lisa
    Aug 26, 2015 @ 12:41:23

    I’m so glad to see your review! I’ve been wondering whether this measure up to The Language of Flowers and whether this might be a book for me, and it looks as though the answer to both is YES. Great review!



  5. Lloyd Russell
    Aug 30, 2015 @ 01:49:44

    Since Language is in my top-12 all-time, Wings will have to go a ways to even come close. But I’m glad you liked it. I will be reading it sometime in September.

    Liked by 1 person


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